Charles Stanley - on success God's way (paraphrased) - If you have a dream in your heart and it does not separate you from God or harm somebody then it may very well be from God, and not to pursue it is a sin.
Jill from Orender's other session: Have a wad of $ cash $, $1000 in $100s, add $100 to it every month so it's tactile. (debit/ccard is ephemeral)
What do you want? scale 1-10. How bad do you want it? If 7 - why 7? b/c don't want it that bad or b/c don't think can get it?