QOTD: Big Frog: You know how people can tell we're Americans?
me, silently thinking: sooooo many ways!
Big Frog: We switch our knife and fork as we eat.
Saturday, October 21, 2017
Dead giveaway
Monday, October 16, 2017
Knit faster!
Pretty, innit?
And providentially completed. Been working on it since this spring with no particular completion date required.
And then we flew to Germany.
More specifically, Big Frog & I flew to Germany, from Greensboro (NC) to OHare (Chicago IL) to Frankfurt (Germany), an adventure that included some surprising twists starting with unexpected free checked bags.
Big Frog & I don't fly all that much. Him more than me of late, with business travel, but still not too often. But when we do fly, it's just carry-on luggage. And we have to search flights out of GSO (Greensboro), CLT (Charlotte), and RDU (Raleigh/Durham), weighing time in car and plane and airport, number of stops, and price. Thank goodness for Hipmunk!1
1 In days of old, although still in internet times, we searched MDT (Harrisburg PA), BWI, and PHL (Philly). One time we flew super cheap out of Trenton, but that one really felt like a cattle call. Mostly I miss HIA (Harrisburg International Airport, the colloquial name for MDT, which actually stands for MidDleTown where it's technically located.). That was a small airport that was beautiful, well-run, clean, and community-friendly. Their plane-spotting room was outside security. And security itself was often a line of 3 people. Also, they held and continue to hold open houses to board planes including cargo planes and military planes and ride helicopters.
We also maintain a reasonably wide circle of what we consider drivable, about a 9h comfortable radius and a 12h reasonably hard-line radius. But Germany is simply not an achievably drivable destination for us. It has been on our bucket list for as long as we've been together, though, a consequence of Big Frog having served here as activated Army Reserves the year before we met.
So last spring, when his work posited a trip for him to their Speyer, Germany location, we got excited. Even when it got pushed back and pushed off, the idea lingered. And suddenly it was here. It may be back to back weeks with his most recent trip to Mexico (He was literally home for 11h and 2 loads of wash Friday night.), and it may be during High Point Furniture Market and we have AirBnB guests living in the basement studio. Never mind that, away we go!
There may be a million things hovering in real life but there's a certain unreality to travel. The hurry up and wait starts at checkin, where for the first time I can remember, since childhood perhaps, certainly since 9/11, I checked a bag. It was free. And I gave in to the allure of not schlepping (as much). So, I retaining my yarn & chargers, and Big Frog retaining his laptop, we proceeded.
We didn't get far before security flagged us. Snacks look a lot like explosives, evidently. Then on to the gate to wait... And wait...
A 30min delay cropped up and I asked the gate attendant what our best alternative was for our newly foreshortened stop at O'Hare. She presented a 2h later route I was glad of, and all the more when her next guest realized she'd missed her flight by minutes and burst into tears, and the following would have a day's delay, stranded at O'Hare.
30 minutes became 90 minutes delay, and every person in that section queued up to see best options for rescheduling. Glad I was to have a plan in place. All would be well.
And well it was, despite a "We've gotta OJ!" skid thru the terminals. We did get to see what to me is the visual touchstone of air travel: the rainbow neons as we walking-sidewalked our way from one gate to the other. Also a dinosaur with Wi-Fi.
Once at the next gate we dutifully checked in as a reroute from a different flight. The gate attendant asked if we'd checked anything... as glad as I'd been to not haul thru O'Hare with everything, now I was wishing I had. Then on the plane we learned that weather in Chicago was delaying all travelers to the northeast. Even routed around it, we could expect turbulence throughout the flight2. Maybe we'd be on the ground long enough for our bags to join us? Of course! We'd made it with time to spare, surely they would too.
2 Time for a turbulence reread of Spirit of Steamboat by Craig Johnson, a standalone Christmastime novella in the Longmire series! Great book.
They did not.
The Lufthansa lost luggage lady, a genuinely delightful individual, kept cheerfully apologizing on United's behalf as she printed claim forms and linked our hotel info with our original, defunct, and rerouted tickets. And she even gave us sleep shirts and gender-specific personal supply bags as an additional "well we don't have your stuff but we will give you the cheapest roll-on deodorant known to man and a hairbrush that will break the very first time you use it" consolation prize.
It took until nearly 8pm the next day for our clothes (and real deodorant) to return to us. I finished up my knitted drape (see first image), ran a load of sink-laundry, and... well, all you can do is all you can do. But once reunited with our belongings (I love you, navy gym bag that I won as a door prize at a Whitaker Center staff meeting! Never leave me again!)...
QOTD:
me, after Big Frog has showered and changed: Clean undies on a clean frog.
Big Frog: A dweam within a dweam. So cherish your luggage...
Saturday, September 9, 2017
TWG (Token White Guy)
In wedding setup assignments, Big Frog graciously volunteered for something and wasn't heard.
me: No one notices the white guy.
After a query went up for someone to draft into the role, Big Frog made direct contact. And got the desired responsibility of carrying 20 pies. I have no doubt he can do that with aplomb, but if only 19 pies show up... or 18... 17... that means Big Frog is having a free for all with the other pies and a really big fork somewhere elsewhere.
Friday, September 1, 2017
Left?
So our epic roadtrip opened with a left turn out of our own neighborhood. I said, "Wait, where are we going?" and the answer I got was, "Wait, where *are* we going?"
North. The answer is north.
(And in a Jeep, for this leg of the journey. Later there will be planes. Also trains. But probably no Steve Martin.)
Friday, July 28, 2017
Curling in Charlotte?!
TIL you can take a 2h Learn to Curl class in Charlotte!
Yelper Jess L (whom I don't know personally) says about it, "Have you ever woken up one morning and been like "Hm, I wonder what olympic sport I'll try today?" and then you think of the most random sport you could think of and you research where you can learn it..."
This we gotta try! Curl away, Big Frog!
Monday, July 24, 2017
What the HELL is a Hufflepuff?
One of its many quotable lines is Dumbledore on sorting new students into the houses:
photo source: Tumblr |
And with Harry Potter's (& JK Rowling's) birthday coming up this week, Bookmarks, like all good indie bookstores staffed by Potterphiles, is hosting a birthday party and encouraging dressing up. But I don't HAVE any wearables from that fandom, except for my Super Megafoxy Awesome Hot tee, which if you don't know that quote, you didn't watch AVPM yet.
But fortunately, in last week's Central Carolina Yarn Crawl, I acquired some lovely chunky yellow wool as a door prize. I wound it and searched the internet for yarn flowers.
My first attempt failed for scale. I'm sure it's a lovely pattern but in bulky yarn this was just huge, and this pic was taken at 4 1/2 rows into an 8-row monstrosity.
I ended up modifying this double-layer chain flower to have its second layer slip-stitched onto the DCs of the first layer instead of being two separate flowers sewn together. And I unpicked the enormous multilayered stacked one outright.
PS Here's a Hufflepuff episode of Emily McGovern's My Life as a Background Slytherin.
source: My Life as a Background Slytherin
Also, for no particular reason, my favorite of all the Background Slytherin comics:
Sunday, July 23, 2017
At the New Lowe's
Anywhere in the US you go to Lowe's and get hardware. Or lumber. Or power tools. Or if you're me, paint.
But in NC there's a grocery store chain, I believe locally owned, also called Lowe's. Lowe's Foods.
And today I looked up from the seating section by prepared foods and realized something.
Me: Is that a bear with antlers?
Big Frog: Of course. It's not a bear den and it's not a deer den. It's a beer den.
Monday, July 10, 2017
Friday, June 30, 2017
Grapefruit?
"I was hoping the new sign would say "GRAPEFRUIT", but it says "Loose Gravel"."
Big Frog & I have a road sign dug into our front yard now. We're not sure why it's there or even quite when it arrived. And there's been inexplicable loose gravel on the road for months now, to the point where it's mostly been scattered.
Tuesday, June 13, 2017
PCA General Assembly 2017
“Come to the table my son, my laughter,
Take wood and knife and let us walk away
Up into His provision.” When Isaac calls after,
“Without a lamb? Do we only go to pray?”
“Come to the table;” stand packed and waiting
Holding your staff, eating pilgrim’s bread
List’ning to the stories of God’s emancipating
Which leaves the darkened kingdom’s firstborn dead.
“Come to the table; long have I waited
To celebrate this Passover with you;
Which I give and pour in love consecrated:
The meal of my body, my body to renew.”
“I am the narrow door, the ram provided, the lamb, slain;
Come you humble, to my table, be filled, rejoice, and reign.”
Monday, June 5, 2017
TIL: Russian Join
Thank you, internet! Craftsy had this tutorial for a Russian Join, which can be used with any kind of yarn, even those that don't felt up. Since my current project is in cotton yarn, I'm excited to have a method that leaves me with no joins to weave in at the end, because they'll already be woven in as I go.
Saturday, May 27, 2017
Big Carrot
Big Frog's colleague, with whom Big Frog travels to Mexico on occasion, knows that when we go away for the weekend we leave the girls alone (in their 120 sq ft runaround space) with enough boxes of hay (multiple Kleenex boxes full) and a BIG CARROT. Nilla & Mocha know that when a big carrot comes out they get some alone time without us around. We like to think they don't like that we’re leaving them alone, but we know they like BIG CARROT.
The most recent time Big Frog traveled, his colleague inquired after the girls and their big carrot, which unfortunately they didn't get because I was staying home. But the colleague's new idea is a full-length film called BIG CARROT, which is about ANYthing and nothing, a drama, a romance, a comedy, but the scene cuts are carrots (like how Law & Order has that bum-bum & suddenly you're somewhere else and some when else) and the final scene is the girls, working away on their bonus nibbles. It's the next Love Actually. Or Henson's Timepiece. I know one thing for sure, the girls would love every minute of filming and all the veggies they can get their teeth on.
Monday, May 22, 2017
Village Social
Art of Biltmore House Tour
My photos from the day are here.
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Leslie Klingner, guide
(Apologies -- these are rather scribble-scrabble notes, but I was writing as fast as I could! And I’m more than willing to share what info I jotted down, just recognize their limitations.)
Most places it's structural; at Biltmore it's just ornamental.
Guastavino is buried in St Lawrence Basilica, at Haywood and Cherry, by Civic Center
Anne Bastion (sp?) - Biltmore upholstery conservator
Put in structural support so could use the chairs for sitting on if the family chose to.
Hand-sewn "underwear layer" made of linen -- can sew fabric to it, not stapled
Reproduction tacks on the side use the same holes.
Silk fabric
25 years breakdown in the light
Birds get into the house and like it
Cost per yard "I can't tell you".
Factory still had swatches of original in their factories so they could match it! so setting up the looms was less than if from scratch. Still astronomical $. And the day the 64th chair was finished ans returned to the Banquet Hall, a bird came in and liked it...!
Different size chairs
Arm chairs probably for show, not for sitting, so displayed usually to the side
In a banquet, might use arm chairs as end seats but difficult if along the sides of the table
GWV and Edith, rather than the image of nobility sitting at the far ends of the table, sat at the center, opposite each other.
Most titled (or important) guests sat with them
Edith's dinner book lists who came to dinner
Man-woman-man-woman seating
Cultural norms to talk to the person on one side of you and when indicated (by lady of the house) would switch to next discussion partner -- not like today's talk to whomever, carry on multiple convos. -- hosts' responsibility to set the seating to match interests with talking partners
Cathy Bernhart (sp?) - blooms - 31 years at Biltmore, retiring this year
Tinkerbell hidden in the tablescape (in the conservatory) (my pic here)
Long-term goal to get the flags down (light damage) & put up reproductions (the service flag is already a reproduction)
Breakfast Room
Return portraits to original placements
John Singer Sargents in Oak sitting room -- in 1920s were here!
Photos show which FRAMES were original to paintings -- even Commodore was swapped
George was influenced in art by his father, William Henry Vanderbilt -- a different experience growing up than his siblings had because WHV was amassing historical narrative paintings
George was interested in contemporary art... contemporary in that time was Renoir, Monet, Manet, Whistler
Also prints of 15th century Renaissance masters
Renoirs were recently moved back to the breakfast room
Renoir, from Limoges France, started in porcelain painting -- then used the money from porcelain to go to L'Ecole des Beaux Arts. Get up close and see the brushwork! (& if there's a Renoir exhibit, go!)
Original wall coverings - core double pressed leather
What's on the other side of the door?
Butler's pantry -- access for back of house duties
Butler would typically stand just inside or just outside the door to keep an eye on things
Hand cut velvet fabric on chairs.
Redone ~1991
Imagine terrycloth towel loops. Then imagine each loop was cut by hand.
To weave 1yd of fabric takes 2 1/2 weeks
Book loops on mantle (my pic here) - are they connected to the paper wigs?
Different department, but goal was to see books as decor in keeping with the Designed for Drama (my term: Fiction to Cinema) exhibit.
Salon
Desk was previously in 2nd floor sitting room
Marquetry - inlay work - puzzle pieces of wood, cut and inlaid. Also layers of brass and pewter.
GWV's prize possession -- how do we know?
Inside drawer is label "Alphonse de Lamartine", who among other things ran for president of France. Was of the upper class but fighting for the people. Napoleon III beat him out and offered him a cabinet post; de Lamartine declined because he wanted still to fight for the people.
Albrecht Dürer prints
Look at the level of line work -- remember, these are WOODCUT prints
All, including writing, is done in reverse
Up to this point, prints were of religious settings and rather stiff
Look at range of tones
Dürer never saw a rhino -- took description from a friend who had seen one
Rhinoceros were almost like mythical creatures, but ones that actually existed
The actual rhino pictured here (previously seen by Dürer's friend) was being gifted to the pope, but in transport was shipwrecked... the rhino drowned.
Tapestry Gallery
George Singer Sargent - both American and British, kind of -- born in Europe to American parents with strong Philly & Connecticut connections
Studied Rembrandt, VanDyke, and Velasquez.
Portraits commissioned 1890
Very modern, out of Spanish portraiture - dark backgrounds, poses, props
GWV has book in hand and is above the door to the library -- has always hung there.
Also Maria Louisa (GWV's mother)
Edith painted by Giovanni Boldini, who was known for painting the "It" girls
Drama, fashion, and movement
All his portraits were beautiful, whether or not the subjects were
Show who the person is
Library Den
Previously held writing tables
Bookshelves were not in here
In George's day, different mantle -- perhaps the music room mantle was here?
In 1914, George had a financial hardship and sold many Rembrandts and Dürers to the Morgan (NYC museum)
Ceiling grand vault, similar to French chapels
Walls GILDED BURLAP
Darren (chief curator) is working on a lighting project for Sargents of Hunt and Olmstead
2nd floor Living Room was both a gathering place (prior to going down to dinner, for example) and a gallery
The feature portraits had moved because with the Louis XVI room finished, they wanted everyone to see the room and it needed a way out, but that cost the place for two of the favorite paintings in the house.
The portraits were painted in Biltmore -- would love to know which room.
Because of Sargent's painting style, up close they are very abstract; have to move back for the paintings to come together
Both subjects were very old at time of painting
Hunt's [family member] said, "I can hardly look at the portrait because it exposes how sick he really was."
Olmstead was so ill he sat for the face in the portrait, but for the body, Olmstead Jr (who was working here) put on his dad's clothes and stood for him.
Andrew Zorn "The Waltz"
Swedish artist
known for capturing the feeling of the moment
newly lit, but may yet change the lighting
Sitting Room (between George's and Edith's bedroom)
Mrs Bacon portrait - frame related correspondence with Sargent - he made custom frames and sometimes cut down frames.
In this case, antique frame was cut down, but then was still too big, and the framemaker didn't gild all the sections, so correspondence re portrait is finished but waiting on frame.
Mrs Bacon was a cousin of GWV, a trained musician, and loved Spanish music
Sargent had a retrospective of his work done while he was alive (very rare)
Requested one particular painting for it, the portrait of Mrs Benjamin Kissam (GWV's mom's SIL), even though it was widely panned at its release as "ugly" and as though she were "going to do laundry".
Any questions?
Was Cornelia lonely, being an only child all the way out here?
Cornelia played with the estate kids.
And she had a playground with seesaws out by Diana
She was part of the first women's polo team
Active-Sporty-Tied to the estate
At her wedding some of the gifts the estate workers gave her were fishing gear such as a creel, and a fishing outfit and boots
THANKS, Leslie!
And thanks to Jamine for all her work in putting together FOBH day activites and coordinating with Biltmore to give us such amazing access.
And thanks to all our wonderful admins, Jamine, Melanie, Tor, and Christopher!
Sunday, May 21, 2017
Biltmore Landscape Architecture Tour
My photos from the day are here.
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Jane Giudici, guide
(Apologies -- these are rather scribble-scrabble notes, but I was writing as fast as I could! And I’m more than willing to share what info I jotted down, just recognize their limitations.)
Olmstead had the vision to see what would be down the road
Saturday, May 13, 2017
Saturday, April 22, 2017
Wait, what?
Which, written in words instead of abbreviations, is yarn over, slip one (knitwise), knit two, pass slip stitch over the two knit stitches.
Say what?
Today I am glad for knitting friends who encourage, and for lifelines, and for youtube.